To look into life's problems and find solutions is a very hard thing. I have undergone that in my life. Isolation and being lonely in this lovely world of beautiful relationships is a hard thing to accept. But it was too late when I understood what has happened to me and my people around me. One fine evening when I was discussing with a young fellow about the aspects of life, I got a chance to tell what actually is the way to have an enduring relationship.
Seeker : Anna, I am having a tight problem. I often fail in relationships. I am talking about all kind of relationships. Like the one with my parents, friends, my lover etc., Almost all of this ends in a kind of conflict. I feel too isolated and that no one understands me. I don't know whether it is my fault or their fault. What do I have to do?
A.V.R. : Have you ever asked this question to yourself?
"What do I have to do?" to yourself.
If yes you would have found the answer yourself. Think about the problem once again. Are you feeling isolated because no understands you or else you don't understand any one? These are two different ways of interrogating yourself the problem put forth.
I always believe a conflict in a relationship will start from one self. Do you agree?
